Why Church is Important for Teens

The most recent publication of Pine Cove Camp's 'Transformed' magazine shares the story of a pastor's teenage daughter who had completely rebelled against all her parents had taught her.  She struggled with depression, anger and low self-esteem.  When her family came to Family Camp, the daughter experienced authentic love and acceptance from the youth counselors.  The counselors were not teaching anything different from what the girl had been taught her whole life but somehow she finally heard the truth of God's love for the first time.  She experienced tremendous healing and freedom through this youth outreach.

Teenagers experience constant attack on their self-esteem.  They are searching for significance, purpose and truth.  While mom and dad may be sharing these things with their kids, as children get older they want to hear it from another source.  A great youth ministry is just what teens need.

The purpose of youth ministry is to share God's love and truths in a relational manner.  Most kids are not into religious exercises.  They want relationship.  God is a God of relationship.  Find a youth ministry that relates to kids.  Great options are available.  Many churches use small groups with a leader that will take a genuine interest in your child.

Here's what a good youth ministry will do for your teen:

• Make them feel accepted and loved.
• Give them a place where they can be themselves.
• Meet new friends who go to their school.
• Encourages accountability among peers.
• Be influenced by positive leaders.
• Hear about God's love and purpose for their lives.
• Learn to serve others and become leaders in their community.

Don't underestimate the importance of youth ministry in your child's life.  This is huge.  I was blessed to be part of a thriving youth group growing up.  These dear friends loved me and challenged me to make good choices.  I’m still close with these friends many years later.  Beg, threaten or bribe but do what it takes to get your teen involved in youth group.  Send her to youth camp and summer mission trips.  It’s life changing! 

For more see my book, 'Intentional Parenting: Tween Edition'. www.lisaarchinal.com